Lots of things can go wrong on a date – but if everything goes right, beware!
Relationship psychologist and dating coach Jennifer Oikle, says falling too fast is the top dating disaster. Here are some common signs you’re falling too fast within the first few days or weeks:
• You can’t stop thinking about him/her.
• You’re in constant contact, talking, texting or emailing every day.
• You’re higher than a kite and experiencing intense emotions.
When we fall too fast, we make the mistake of plugging this person in to that dream-mate role before we really know them. As we get to know the real person, the idealized version starts to fade. Now you’re already emotionally attached and it could be difficult to change gears. Kathy says we should fight the impulse to rush into new love, even if it feels right. Limit get-togethers to once a week at first – and keep electronic communication in check to avoid going off the deep end. If it's the real thing - take your time and savor getting to know each other.
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