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Friday, November 18, 2011

If your neighbors are less than neighborly – here's some advice...

Even the best neighborhoods have crummy neighbors...

If they happen to live next to you – here are some good strategies for dealing with the Jerky Jonses:


• The careless dog owner who lets their dog run, dig, howl and dig through your trash: Try a neighborly, face-to-face approach first. Explain you’re concerned for the animal’s welfare and focus on the dog’s behavior, not the owner’s. You can notify animal-control or the police as a last, less-neighborly resort.

• The property-line fanatic: It’s best to start with a cooperative approach and walk the property together. If there are issues you don’t agree on, stay calm. Write a letter to them stating your perspective. This lets them know you’re serious. You may also want to consider having the property surveyed.

• The nosy neighbor: One approach to take with a snoop is to kill them with kindness. Be extra friendly and go out of your way to say hello or offer a helping hand. Most people feel less-inclined to snoop on someone they like. If they’re the intrusive or gossipy type, you’ll have to put your foot down. Let them know their concerns are unwarranted and you prefer to handle your family and personal life privately.

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