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Wednesday, August 31, 2011

If you apologize all the time, I'm sorry but I've got some bad news...

Do you apologize too much? Some people do it excessively...

Do you say “I’m sorry” for things you don’t need to be sorry about? If you do – that’s a bad habit that needs breaking. Apologizing unnecessarily makes you look like a pushover. If you bump into someone – go ahead and apologize. If they bumped in to you – don’t. Here are a few more social tics to avoid:

• Cracking knuckles. It might not bother you – but it drives some people nuts.

• Touching yourself. Some people get twitchy when they’re nervous. If you scratch your nose, touch your hair or have to keep adjusting – it will be noticed.

• Touching others. People are sensitive about their personal space. It’s best to keep touching to a minimum until you really know someone.

• Umm. Most of us do it – use a crutch word to fill a pause. If you catch yourself using “umm,” “like” or “y’know” a lot, try slowing down a bit. Chances are you’re either talking too fast or haven’t thought things through.

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