What’s the number one defense that cheaters use?

You’re Crazy! 

That’s the number one defense that cheating spouses fall back on when they are questioned about their fidelity. Private investigator, Amy Drescher, says many of her female clients report being called crazy by the husbands she’s investigating – and that’s a big red flag. 

Someone wrongly accused of cheating is more likely to want some information and details to determine who or what has sounded the false alarm. If your suspicions make sense, a faithful partner would be more inclined to put your fears to rest, reassure you and clear the air. Cheaters often fall back on the “You’re crazy!” defense in an attempt to make you doubt your own instincts. Another common defense is the “Yes, that’s right, I’m cheating” line. A sarcastic “confession” is just another way of insinuating “you’re crazy!”