Go ahead, accept that complement. Why humility backfires.

Can you take a compliment? A lot of people can’t. 

The next time someone flatters you, resist the urge to come back with a self deprecating remark. “Oh, this old thing?” or “I could have done better” only contradicts the person complimenting you. While that may seem harmless, you’re actually suggesting they have poor judgement or taste.

A sincere “Thank you” is the best response when you’re complemented. If you have trouble doing that, throw in a “that’s nice of you to say” or “I appreciate that” to avoid sounding like “thank you, I am great aren’t I?”