Are you suffering from red kettle guilt? A lot of people do. It generally kicks in as you approach a store and hear that bell ringing - it’s the Salvation Army. Most of us give a little something here and there – but for those who already gave, don’t feel like digging for money, or are just in a hurry – sometimes an uneasy feeling sets in. Psychologist Brad Riemann who deals with holiday anxiety says, don’t feel guilty. The anxiety of that moment is all in your head and pretending you don’t see or hear that bell ringer only makes things worse.
One bell ringer chimes in for us – if you’re not going to give, we really don’t need an explanation – just a warm smile or a nod is usually appreciated. But by all means, if the spirit moves you, give what you can – even pennies help.
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