The most common school grades that bullying takes place are 6th, 7th and 8th. So should advise your child to fight back?
No. Most schools now have zero tolerance rules for fighting. A student could be suspended or expelled for behavior without the context of the whole situation considered. Experts suggest we teach our kids the first steps to take with a bully.
• Stand up - literally – without getting physical. Stand up straight – look the bully in the eye and remain calm when confronted.
• Speak up. A firm “that’s not cool” or “stop it” is the best approach. Quiet bullies can sometimes be deterred if attention is drawn to them.
• Walk away.
Kids won’t always let an adult know if they’re the target of bullying – but they can safeguard themselves a bit by taking a few steps to reduce the opportunity. Sit near the front on a school bus and stay within sight of an adult at recess and in the cafeteria. If cyber-bullying is an issue – tell your child to save any bullying emails or text messages.
Source: Marji Lipshez-Shapiro, ADL.org
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