Should religion matter in a new relationship?

New relationships are exciting – and fragile...

eHarmony has a few life aspects that could be deal breakers later on:

• Secrets: If someone has to curb themselves around friends, family or co-workers - that charade can be a real burden on the partner.

• Jealousy: If you feel threatened by the people your partner interacts with – that’s not likely to change. You’ll need to determine if that’s their problem, or yours.

• Religion: For some couples, it doesn’t matter – until it matters. In other words, religion can have a bigger impact on a relationship once you’re older or start to consider a family – and little differences can suddenly seem a lot bigger.

• Family: If your family is intrusive domineering, belittling or just plain crazy – there’s a good chance your partner won’t be able to handle that.

• Finances: Never lie about money. If the relationship lasts, financial surprises or hidden debts can be catastrophic to the trust.